Holding It Together (Kinda)
Here we will get real in our conversations about Mental Illness and Caregiving, and the messy reality of keeping it all balanced.
No sugar-coating, no clinical jargon—just real talk about the hospitalizations, the medication battles, and the toll it takes on a home
This is for the parents, siblings, and partners who are doing the impossible every single day.
Holding It Together is a home for the overthinkers, the multitaskers, and anyone who feels like they’re one spilled coffee away from a meltdown.
Holding It Together (Kinda)
The Dilemmas of Addiction
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We explore the hard edge between autonomy and suffering through Jamie’s story and the wider reality of co‑occurring addiction and mental illness. We ask when saving a life becomes enough, how families hold the line, and why systems confuse stabilization with success.<br><br>• co‑occurring disorders shaping addiction and depression<br>• families as first responders at the front line<br>• the broken safety net after detox and discharge<br>• autonomy versus intervention and stages of change<br>• stigma, neuroscience, and reframing addiction as brain disease<br>• commitment laws, beds, and practical barriers<br>• ACT teams, navigators, and continuity of care<br>• boundaries, culture, guilt, and self‑care for families<br>• guardianship limits and realistic expectations<br>• redefining success beyond survival toward quality of life<br><br>Find us on YouTube at HITKINDA and subscribe. Like, follow, comment, vent, throw rocks, tantrum, whatever you need to do today, but please follow us<br>
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SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT
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SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT
We are moving to a platform called Discord. Think of it as our own private, invite-only living room.
JOIN HERE: https://discord.gg/2TCSdfNb
I want to be there for you more deeply, but as many of you know, our private Facebook group hasn't been working. It became cluttered, it lacked real privacy, and it turned into a place for people to advertise instead of support one another.
So, I have shut it down, and I’ve built us a brand-new, private home.
There are no algorithms, no social media noise, and absolutely zero spam or advertising.
I’ve set it up with a Free General Area where you can log in, pull up a chair, and just vent or chat with other caregivers who truly understand your day.
There’s no video required—you don't have to worry about getting dressed up or what your house looks like. You can just listen in and talk to me like a private phone call.
Now, if you aren't tech-savvy, please do not worry. I promise it is simple.
I can’t wait to see you there, talk to you directly, and finally give you the supportive community you deserve. Now, let’s get into today's show."
How to Join Our Private Care Community (Step-by-Step):
- Click this link: https://discord.gg/2TCSdfNb
- If you are on a phone, it will prompt you to download the free, secur...
